The huz and I have a really great problem to have. We love both of our families a lot. like, really, really a lot.
And we typically can only go see one of them for the holidays and only for one holiday at that. Which is hard because we want to see our families all the time.
My family is in the PNW and his is in New England, so we can only pick one each year.
More often than not we are not able to travel home for Thanksgiving. So, we started inviting friends over for T-giving a few years ago. A #Friendsgiving if you will.
#Friendsgiving is something I look forward to now, instead of being sad that I cannot be with family. What a gift to gather with friends who cannot be with family and celebrate, overeat and be thankful together.
This year several friends are coming over. I am cooking a turkey, something that still scares me. A 23lb. turkey. But, I am excited for the parade, for food, for my baby’s first celebration, for more food, some football, putting on some old maternity pants and eating more food.
I made my Gran’s Cornbread Dressing today. I love a great family recipe. Of course, she makes it the best, but it is a decent attempt at a taste of home when I can’t be with her on Thanksgiving.
Requirements for #Friendsgiving:
- Everyone has a dish (whether they make it or they give me the recipe and I make it) that is their fave dish from childhood. Something delicious and nostalgic. Nostalgia is delicious to me.
- TONS of leftovers. Because doesn’t everyone want to take leftovers home?
- We watch the parade (if you’re over in the morning) and we watch football all afternoon (#GOHAWKS)
So, remember to be thankful, whoever you’re with and wherever you are. There is always a bright side. Look for it this holiday season. Happy Thanksgiving!
p.s. Don’t get caught in a Yam/Potato landslide at the grocery store. Excessive Safeway? I think so.